what is it with this modernization that frees up all barriers of sex but disallows a pure love from existing amongst the leather couches of night clubs? new age boons of overseas jobs and girls who want to work and want their husbands to stay at home. an epidemic of heartbreak has made the souls of youngsters completely immune to the joys of a simple, beautiful romance. call me old fashioned but i think the beauty of a courtship is in the words said face to face, is in simply leaving a lipstick kiss on the morning bathroom mirror, not a :X in an sms. is in simply smiling through the warmth of your eyes, a slight blush when you're given a compliment, not writing :D 2 sec later over a web cam.its great for keeping in touch, this technology, but it just ruins romance.
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they call themselves free. open relationships.free love. ya right. whats free about determining whether your love is real by discussing it with the psychiatrist you go to cause your first relationship left you 'unable to commit.' maybe you can't feel real love because years of just living immunizing yourself against the jerks who are your rebounds and the guys you slept with cause you needed to get a fuck.
maybe its time to let it not be an insult when you say to your dad - please don't be so 18th century. any woman who is true to herself will realize she still loves the carriage door being held open to her rather than standing in a bus 'cause of equal rights', just as any man who is true to his manhood and not afraid of being called a chauvinist will realize he loved the days when he could pay for all the dinners, when he could know that the woman needed his chest to hide into when she just needed warmth. its not really all that contradictory. a woman doesn't need to assert her rights to be respected. the man simply will. because she's a person, not because she's a woman. (the whole respect me cause i'm a woman and the harbinger of all humanity completely negates the equal rights thing anyway, because you don't see anyone saying "well respect him because he's a man" - new age feminists aren't fighting for equal rights, they're fighting for superiority of women. a true woman respects both sexes equally, so does a gentleman).
it comes down to this. the battle of the sexes is because of the redefinition of the roles a man and woman are capable of playing in society. and to see who's is more important. that was never a problem before cause both could win. cause the fields were different. women won all the battles behind closed doors. they were satisfied purring docile kitties in front of others simply because they were happy that the man gave her her due in private. men were the only contenders for the battles outside the home.
in todays world, the battlefields clash. so now its man against woman. and man against man. and woman against woman. three battles.
i feel bad for the men. its tough being sensitive and tough and ambitious and family oriented... its easy being a woman. you just blame all your problems on PMS, the new age liberated woman's scapegoat for all the daily superwoman faux pas (faux pae? what is the plural of faux pas?). and then, the man, who knows hell will break loose if he tries to argue, says "you're right dear, you are a superwoman, you can do everything - just not for one fourth of the month".
and these poor metro sexual men are then supposed to be sissies if they 'talk about their feelings' while girls blabber to their free therapist - their best friend..or worse, every man's nightmare(the only reason he listens to all of the above crap from the woman) - another man!